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Are "forums" dead in general?

Differences in communication and discussion taking over

         

explorador

3:37 am on Dec 24, 2022 (gmt 0)

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This is related to csdude55 thread here: [webmasterworld.com...] and a few threads I opened in the past, but mostly with the twist of questioning what's happening with people in general. You could say the big questions are:

1. How to keep a forum alive
2. How to motivate discussions
3. Questioning if forums are dying or dead

I'll try to explain what I see.

A. Csdude55 describes challenges managing a forum that has been taken over by political discussions. I've seen the same on other forums that have multiple areas for discussion, or are just open to anything and everything, but anyway people (or just "some" people) insist on talking about politics. Somehow it seems on specific forums, people don't want to discuss anything but politics and go on rants and personal attacks.

B. I've seen some other forums that used to encourage discussion, going on page after page discussing empty stuff like "is there really free will after all?" and I'm quite shocked to see how far people go at pseudo philosophizing around it, and won't engage on any topic that requires real life experiences, it's like... today we have tons of lifeless people.

C. Locally in my country, a huge forum with tons of traffic is dying, but beyond just "dying", it's been a while (years) since it's all about dreaming on becoming rich, or complaining about how hard life is. All the other discussions don't go beyond 2, 3 posts top, but talk about stupid ideas on how to become rich overnight or crypto and it's page after page.

D. On diff places people say forums are dead, and Twitter + FB killed them because today people only discuss things there... but that's not true. Twitter is famous for being a flaming place and it's been wisely called by psychologists "an unhealthy place, a place to avoid". On the other hand I joined graphic design and developer groups on FB and oh yeah there is a lot of movement, no!, there is no discussion, it's all short posts about saying nah! whatever, there is no depth or silly questions on help me to do my homework (lazy posts).

E. Today I searched the web for specific topic forums in order to TRY to discuss something, or ask about something in specific, and to my surprise, (developer) forums with lots of movement are now dead, abandoned threads, silly short questions, a few long and detailed questions but with short answers like "yeah, PHP should do it", or "python rules, it's better than PHP", but that's it. Ask about how to deal with low rankings and some weird 404 errors on a webpage and the replies are like "JSON + VUE and some PHP should do it", should do WHAT?

F. It takes time, but I've seen PLENTY of people without a job bragging about stuff online saying you are charging little money for that, you should charge tons of dollars, or "you should use Flutter instead of Angular", but if you go after the specifics, they have never created a mobile app.

Beyond the discussion of "are forums dead?", all I see is bitter people sitting on a bench at the park nagging and complaining about anything and everything, and most seem unable to build an argument beyond 4 lines, is this related to my old threads of people becoming dumb and dumber? affected by the twitter style? I remember people disagreeing with me but over the years ended up saying "man you are right, people are dumber today, can't read, can't write, and their heads will explode with anything beyond 4 lines".

I have a collection of things to discuss, but all I see today is 2 extremes: (1) people not even saying a word, and (2) people saying they have the solution for everything, but won't say a single word beyond that, and if you dig long enough on other areas of the forums... they do sound unemployed and without experience about what they are talking. A lot of forums today sound like the famous toxicity on Linux forums.

So, do you have anything to say about any of this? do you think forums are dead? or is everyone loosing the skills to discuss anything?

2by4

10:58 pm on Oct 30, 2023 (gmt 0)

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explorador, these issues aren't new, but we like to pretend they don't exist, re logic etc. I had a logic teacher in college and when I asked him if he'd seen a decline in his students' ability to do logic since TV appeared (this was the old days, when tv was the big change), he said, definitely, without any doubt. I asked that because I'd read Jerry Mander's 4 Arguments for the elimination of Television, and was curious if that seminal book's conclusions mapped to his direct first hand experience. They did. Later on, I read a bunch of Marshal Mcluhan, who dives into the stuff, but with the initial focus on what readily available mass scale printing did to the human brain, basically memory got trashed, as did the ability to use language. See Dante in the Italian vs modern poetry to see the pre and post Gutenberg press change.

Nicholas Carr brought this issue up to current with his The Shallows: what the internet is doing to our brains, which everyone should read.

Unlike what Elon Musk and his crowd say, this stuff isn't making us smarter, it's making us progressively more stupid and unable to reason, particularly the internet since it drops the effort to get a factoid down to a few seconds in many cases.

So a decline in reasoning is in fact exactly what you would expect, and is what we get. As Mcluhan said, the medium is the message, and that's totally true. I am far, far more stupid now after a few decades of working with computers than when I started, I was truly shocked when I read The Shallows, because I had been faintly aware of this cognitive degradation in myself, but had never really stopped to think about it more deeply. Carr did.

I know the scenario you cited re someone derailing a possible great thread all too well, in fact, that very thing happened at the start of one of the most, if not the most, epic development threads I have ever started, but at the start of it, it was almost derailed by a troll, who probably believed he was helping defend the community from unwanted invasion. It was only because the actual project leader himself come in and told the guy to shut up that he failed to derail that massive effort. It only takes one person, which the russian state troll farms, previously run by the wagner group, but now I believe run directly by the russian government, have learned all too well, that is, trolling and derailing and distracting works, and works very well.

This is another significant factor I believe in the decline of traditional forums, and the rise of more focused type q/a forums, like stack, reddit, if you strictly govern what can be said re derailing or spouting nonsense, it doesn't happen, but if you don't, and if your site is a primary online resource, and has value to someone in terms of negatively impacting it via trolls, shills, etc, that's an actual job, a career choice (for total losers, but still a job), which is another fundamental difference today between how the internet was in 2005 and today. This is basically the professional abuse industry, whether from xrumer or bots or trolls or shills. I have seen those year after year, whenever there is money or power involved, the shills show up. Ignoring this reality, like ignoring the pro software tools like xrumer, means you can't understand what is happening with free discussion formats online.

I suspect that is a part of why traditional open formats are in decline, unless they are heavily moderated and controlled. On hydrogenaudio forums, for example, you are not allowed to state x or y 'sounds better' without doing a blind abx test and demonstrating you can prove it sounds better. This is required to avoid the total gibberish and nonsense spread by people who do not understand how psychoacoustics and audio work, how the brain filters and changes stuff, etc.

This is why Elon (and his co-funders) is almost certainly set to lose most of his money he wasted on twitter, because by creating a free to troll environment, everyone will drift off, or enough will drift off to make profitability impossible. For example, visa dropped twitter, then came back... but their spending cut was 100,000 to 10, literally 10 dollars.

Moderation, in other words, is critical, and is very hard. One way you can tell you are not a relevant resource anymore is that spammers and trolls ignore your site. For example, electrek.com a prominent EV site, has been consistently targetted by shills and trolls in their comment section basically since it started, yet if you go to other EV sites, there is basically no troll or bot activity at all, that's because it's a business, and they target the market leaders since they are aiming for eyeballs per dollar spent, like advertising, except the aim is to ruin the site as an interactive resource, not build it up.

I think I'm somewhat lucky, while I do encounter what you are describing occasionally, I generally have found it most often on github issue trackers for my projects, that type of incredibly annoying user, but I honestly don't see that much on the forums I frequent, they seem reasonably well moderated, and the ones where I see it, now that I think about it, where I view the core moderator team culture to be truly toxic, I simply stop going there. I could name names, but I'll leave it at that. When I find this happening, I don't go back, and drop them from my list of acceptable resources.

In a sense, say for the arm32 situation you are describing, unfortunately real geeks attract that type, it's the cost, I've seen it over and over on linux type forums, when I was a moderator one two of them, it really caused issues, which is I think one reason I don't do moderating anymore, the other being I'd just rather code and produce solutions than deal with imbeciles with social and mental problems. Trolls, in other words. But to be fair, trolls form far less than 1% of the overall population, but they do far more than their share of damage. Trolls who are not kicked out will often end up destroying a project and community, which is why they should not be tolerated or treated as acceptable behavior. Bringing Elon's slow motioin destruction of twitter back to highlight this, what he terms 'free speech absolutism' is nothing of the sort, he wants to see right wing trolls, he enjoys them, he's fond of conspiracy nonsense, and that is rapidly losing him core community after community. I watch them come in as refugees because I am on mastodon, and these are coming in more and more often now.

Trolls are toxic to internet communications, like xrumer is toxic for forums and blog comments. There has been no real solution to these issues that are not very labor intensive, or require very good programming and testing skills.

pico-parser sounds like the same type I had almost derail what was to become the best ever thread maybe I've ever had the honor to be involved in. Best in class really, forums at their finest, and certainly what Brett has in mind when he wants to exclude a/q sites from forums, but that is so rare, and the rule is really most threads are q/a or ongoing development type things, not long form development or focused discussion. But this is getting increasingly rare, and it has nothing to do with the google algo, it's the talented users, or lack thereof.

Re facebook, it's broken at core and by design, this has all been revealed via some key leaks and some core insiders who basically told all, after they had cashed in and out of their executive roles at facebook. I don't interact with it, I use it to follow some family I like, and some artists and musicians, and that's it. I stopped using it as a microblogging platform with a captive audience ages ago, though I did give it a spin initially, until I realized that if I want to write and have readers, I already have a blog, and if the internet isn't interested, then that's fine. Or I can generate some keyword packed content for Brett and WebmasterWorld lol, whatever.

But I would suggest complaining that facebook is doing x or y, is just ignoring the fact that facebook is designed to work the way it is, it thrives by polarizing and raising emotions, again, it's all about dopamine and addiction, trivial to manipulate for foreign state actors, which is why russia has used it so effectively, but so does china etc, but that's not fixable, the solution, which is what I do, is to set everyone using it as a microblogging platform to their somewhat captive audience, aka, 'friends', onto ignore all posts from this person, until you end up with useful stuff from people who don't babble or spread ridiculous stories or news items. I see literally almost zero news stuff in my feed now, which is how I want it. I also refuse to post anything inflammatory, and explicitly only post stuff that will make people I know happy, which sounds trite, but it's literal death to the facebook business model.

But complaining about facebook generating the exact type of content and argument and outrage it's designed to generate is... lol, there's a reason they make it so hard to delete your account, is all I can say. I do not try to have serious conversations with people on facebook, it's not designed for that.

These social media platforms have no inherent strength or power, if you stop using them, they vanish from your life, and nothing bad happens. If you neutralize them, like I have largely done for facebook, I see nice posts from relatives and artists I like, and nothing else. Mastodon is everything twitter was at its best, for example, and uses no algo at all to generate your feed, and has no financial incentive to generate outrage and high emotions, so that doesn't happen, and it's not yet a target for bots and shills and trolls, so it's fairly nice still.

Rather than debate however how forums are doing, to me, in the old WebmasterWorld spirit, just do it, create a valuable resource, see if you can build a userbase, and see how it goes. I know there were two different outdoors type forums I used over years, and both I thought were annoying and poor, and if I'd been more into it, I would have started trying to build up one, but getting the user base initially is hard if you are late to the game. So I never did.

There's an odd cognitive dissonance however to me, observing, correctly, that things like facebook and twitter etc foster toxic human interactions, sort of begs the question, who is forcing anyone to use those things? As I noted, you can easily sculpt facebook to get rid of all that garbage, I give a new 'friend' usually 1 day to determine if they get put on permanent ignore and don't show from this person, most of them don't survive 1 day, and that keeps my facebook completely fine.

I've never used or really even seen tiktok or instagram, and my caring for those is about as close to zero as you can get, again, if they are annoying, don't use them, there are many better places to spend your time online, and better things to do with your finite remaining hours of life. Just because a corporation makes a website doesn't mean you have to use it, except maybe amazon when you need specialized stuff that is hard to find and can't be found on other sites.

nickZ

7:21 pm on Oct 31, 2023 (gmt 0)



Just compare car manuals from the 50 with 2020.
One teaches you to adjust valves and the other not to drink battery fluids.

explorador

9:16 pm on Oct 31, 2023 (gmt 0)

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2by4: explorador, these issues aren't new, but we like to pretend they don't exist
True.
2by4: In a sense, say for the arm32 situation you are describing, unfortunately real geeks attract that type,
Also true. Many openly talked about not going out, living in VERY cold icy countries/areas, spending money on dead and obsolete technology, having ill relatives, saving money to buy things like a broken computer screen from 1989, etc. And just like with crazy people, any conversation would go just fine as long as you went with their flow... but ONE, just one tiny disagreement about how... let's say "palm was better than apple" would mean they will follow you around the forum or discord to point whatever they think it's a mistake or flaw in their logic (sounds familiar?).
2by4:There's an odd cognitive dissonance however to me, observing, correctly, that things like facebook and twitter etc foster toxic human interactions, sort of begs the question, who is forcing anyone to use those things?
Also true, and sadly some people engage way more with that, rather than positive discussions.

Here, and on another ongoing thread, old forum member names have been mentioned. It's valid in this context to also say that some older forum members left, and they made it clear why with a rant, protest, or explanation. Some (via PM) have explained they no longer have patience with "modern style" discussions, you know, going off topic so much and not focusing on contributions, and I agree.

nickZ: Just compare car manuals from the 50 with 2020.
One teaches you to adjust valves and the other not to drink battery fluids.

SO TRUE, I came across this on educational (educator) discussions, as more and more labels and manuals today have more text explaining what you shouldn't do with the product because it could harm you or kill you, and it's not even about the inherent risks of the product properties! it's about "don't inhale, drink, or rub this industrial solvent". Someone made fun of this on a forum (and someone did too on a stand up comedy), on how today teens and adults need to be told they must not drink their shampoo. God!.

thecoalman

7:37 pm on Jan 3, 2024 (gmt 0)

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Obviously it's no where near it's peak in the early to mid 2000's but I wouldn't say forums are dead by any means. I'm a moderator for phpBB.com so I get to see a lot of very active forums seeking support. Most carved out a niche years ago but there is occasionally a few new ones with a lot of activity too. The ones with the most activity are covering very specific topics outside of mainstream topics Last one I worked on was for a community building fusion reactors in their basement. How is that for a niche? That's no joke either, expensive and negligible energy yield but still possible.

Ironically building a fusion reactor, no problem, restoring a phpBB backup and all hell breaks loose. :)


go on rants and personal attacks


I have one off topic section that I allow political/controversial topics. After years of struggling with this I came up with this rule and it's worked quite well.

After many years of trying various ways to accommodate off topic political discussion this is the final place I will allow it. Keep your political comments light. Anything I deem too hot or inappropriate will result in your privileges for the off topic forum being permanently revoked. There will be no warning or appeal. I'm not going to define what is inappropriate either. There will be no "this user did it why can't I". If I'm pissed off because I overheated the water for my coffee in the morning don't complain to me if you had your privileges revoked. You might as well talk to the wall, I simply don't care.

explorador

10:31 pm on Jan 5, 2024 (gmt 0)

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thecoalman: If I'm pissed off because I overheated the water for my coffee in the morning don't complain to me if you had your privileges revoked. You might as well talk to the wall, I simply don't care.
this sounds great.

BTW, lately for random reasons I searched for information on FB channels, I hate FB but also for reasons I had to open an account. The thing is, some of these FB groups are private, some are public, but... but you can't find that info using search engines, what a waste. So, you should use FB, right? it sucks, because sometimes I want to show my wife something important I read yesterday, so, it's a matter of checking the... wait, where is it? some things get lost for whatever reasons and then it's there again.

tangor

7:28 am on Jan 6, 2024 (gmt 0)

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Is FB a forum or social media?

Inquiring minds and all that.

Brett_Tabke

1:46 pm on Jan 6, 2024 (gmt 0)

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FB is social media because the user controls the feed. The differentiation is in public vs private and who controls the discussion.

csdude55

7:19 pm on Jan 6, 2024 (gmt 0)

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I respectfully disagree, @Brett_Tabke.

I've always said that FB is nothing more than a poorly designed message board. Look at the list of threads on WebmasterWorld: if the thread were loaded in a hidden element, then when you clicked on it you simply unhid that hidden element, it would be no different from FB.

FB doesn't have summary subjects, though, and there's no way to search or categorize. Which is why I say that it's poorly designed.

And I disagree that, with FB, the user controls the feed. Maybe I'm missing something because I don't use FB very often, but it looks to me like their algorithm controls the feed! Showing the user what the algorithm thinks they want to see, creating an echo chamber where users only see posts that they agree with. While it's true that the user can follow or unfollow specific people, my forums have the same feature. I think that Reddit does, too, but I'm not sure. Either way, that feature doesn't make them "social media".

A lot of people have told me that the difference is that "social media" encourages people to use their real names, while message boards encourage anonymity. But I've countered with how poorly planned that is! As proven by the fact that at least 60% of the accounts on FB are fake. Probably a lot more now.

Quick story: I once was in a meeting with the local Chamber of Commerce and town manager. In the meeting he promoted FB and said that he couldn't use my sites, because FB used real names and he "didn't like" not knowing who he was talking with.

During the meeting, I went to his FB page, saved a few pictures, created a new account with his name and pictures, then sent out friend requests to everyone on his list.

At the end of the meeting (less than 30 minutes after I started), I showed everyone the fake account and how easy it was for me to impersonate him. And explained exactly how dangerous it was, because I could then use that account to do ANYTHING... I could make "official" announcements under his name, I could "confess" to any secrets or sins that I wanted, etc. And of course, I deleted the account while I was there with him, because we were friends and I had no evil intentions other than to show him the dangers of him using FB.

Ironically, it didn't change a thing. The town manager and Chamber both continued to promote FB, and have never used or promoted my sites.

In summary:

In my opinion, "social media" is just a buzz word with no real meaning, and FB is nothing but a poorly designed message board with a huge marketing budget.

tangor

10:29 am on Jan 7, 2024 (gmt 0)

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My question was rhetorical. FB is social media in that the message "thread/topic" is the individual user, not the content.

FB monetizes the USER, not so much the content.

It is an advertising platform targeted at the USER.

Forums can have the same harms as noted above, but for the most part are actually TOPIC driven, not user driven.

Forums ain't dead. They just aren't as sexy or bright shiny object as social media.

explorador

6:26 pm on Jan 8, 2024 (gmt 0)

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cssdude55: A lot of people have told me that the difference is that "social media" encourages people to use their real names, while message boards encourage anonymity.
I've been told the same, and I don't really understand it. In forums in general there are more rules (sure, depends on each forum), but on FB people end up calling each other names and ridiculing others way more easily, there is more aggression despite lots of people using their real names... perhaps they get way more upset because of this? and a nickname somehow helps most people to detach? I don't see why people prefer using their real names on FB, I've seen so many cases where being casual or just slightly uncaring about a detail people end up becoming the meme of the week.

thecoalman

7:35 pm on Jan 8, 2024 (gmt 0)

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They are more aggressive because they can be. Most forum owners are not going to allow that on their forum.

AFAIK FB requires a real name. I had account from ages ago I rarely used with my middle name which is what I go by and shortened version of my last name. The last time I tried to login into the account it was suspended with no reason given, My presumption is that it was the name. They were asking me to upload a picture of my face. Request denied!

csdude55

10:52 pm on Jan 8, 2024 (gmt 0)

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It's pretty arbitrary, @thecoalman. I have a friend named Joel that uses the name "Rusty Shakleford" as his profile for at least 10 years.

Every time I look at my feed, I see a ton of people saying, "don't accept a friend request from me, I've been hacked". My mom passed away in 2020, and I just now found 15 accounts using her name and picture! I've reported them in the past, but they've never been removed.

I don't see why people prefer using their real names on FB, I've seen so many cases where being casual or just slightly uncaring about a detail people end up becoming the meme of the week.

You remind me of another conversation I had. This one was with my sister, many years ago.

She insisted on posting pictures of her kids, including bathtub pics :-O I pointed out how dangerous and stupid that was, and she said, "oh, it's just friends and family!" So I asked if she REALLY knew the 300 people on her list, and she replied that a lot of them were people she went to school with.

I proceeded to point out 3 or 4 that I knew had gone to prison for sex crimes. They weren't supposed to be on Facebook, of course, but nobody was stopping them.

I pointed out that, just by looking at her page for a few minutes, I could see her kids' names, what school her kids went to and their teachers' names, when and where she goes to church, the hours that she works, etc. And how easy it would be for someone to use that information to go up to one of her kids when they know she's not there, and use this information to "prove" to the kid that they really know her.

You would think that would have been a wake up call, wouldn't you? But nope, she posts on FB all day long, and those pics of her kids in the bathtub are still there.

People just have no clue about how insanely dangerous it really is for them to have their real name on there.

thecoalman

8:21 am on Jan 9, 2024 (gmt 0)

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When I say rarely used it I can count on one hand how many times I logged into it over perhaps 15 years. Each time I just used it for contacting someone. The age of the account and complete lack of content may have been another flag.

Mark_A

8:41 am on Jan 9, 2024 (gmt 0)

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@csdude55
People just have no clue about how insanely dangerous it really is for them to have their real name on there.


That convinced me, scary indeed.

csdude55

10:35 pm on Jan 9, 2024 (gmt 0)

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@Mark_A, I once had dinner with a retired DOJ agent. This is the story he relayed to me, paraphrased into my own words.

My area in the US has a relatively high Hispanic population, roughly 20%. A lot of them are undocumented (factories used to go to Mexico and smuggle them in, which was illegal but everyone in the 80s turned a blind eye to it), and in the US being undocumented means that they can get deported if they sneeze the wrong direction (ha).

Because of this, we have a VERY high number of child abductions and human trafficking! They typically target Hispanic children because they know that the undocumented parents will not be able to report it to anyone; and if they do, more often than not the police don't care.

He told me that the common process is that the parents post pics of their kids on Facebook, which the trafficker then sees and downloads. They post these pics on the dark web for bids, and when someone places a high enough bid then they simply use the information on the FB page to get the kid... more often than not, they'll pick them up at a school bus stop.

By time someone notices that the kid is missing, they're already on a plane and out of the country.

It's absolutely terrifying! But he said that they don't really advertise it because, if people knew the facts, they would never leave the house.
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