I'm using MariaDB 10.3, which appears to be pretty much the same as MySQL but theoretically faster.
Yesterday, the server load skyrocketed for no apparent reason. Using "top", I saw that the RES load for MySQL was slowly going up and eventually reached 1.7G. I've never really looked before, so I don't know what a normal load is.
I understand that RES means "Resident size; the non-swapped physical memory a task has used."
It took about 2 hours, but I was able to run backups and restart the server. After that, the RES load for MySQL dropped to about 400M.
As of 2pm today (prime time), the RES load for MySQL is back up to 1.0G. The overall server load is OK, though, if not a little lower than usual (about 0.80).
Any suggestions on how I can determine what a "normal" RES for MySQL should be?
If this is high, what does it imply?